Planning with aging parents

Know what comes next—before a crisis

Agave helps older adults and their families talk through important decisions, agree on roles, and create a practical plan.

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Find your starting point

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A good place to start is you.

Who are you here for today?

A few small steps. No need to have all the answers.

The outcome

A decision you can act on—not another list of resources.

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ClarityWhat matters and which decisions need attention.

AlignmentWho is involved and what each person will do.

A planOne practical record of decisions and next steps.

Services

Choose the support your family needs today.

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Living Conversation

For an individual who needs a calm place to begin.

Leave knowing what matters most and which decision comes next.

  • One private guided conversation
  • A concise summary of priorities
  • Recommended next step
$175–$275Book a conversation
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Living Plan

For a person or family with decisions to make and loose ends to organize.

Leave with shared decisions, clear responsibilities, and one written plan.

  • Guided planning sessions
  • A practical written Living Plan
  • Roles, decisions, and follow-up
$750–$1,250Start a Living Plan

Family Alignment

For families navigating disagreement, uncertainty, or complex roles.

Move forward with the older adult’s wishes centered and everyone clear on their role.

  • Private preparation
  • A series of guided family meetings
  • Agreements and action summary
Scope and price confirmed before bookingBegin Family Alignment

Not sure which fits? Schedule a free 15 minute call

Before you begin

Common questions.

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Is Agave only for families facing end of life?

No. The best time to begin is before a crisis. Agave helps families plan how an older adult wants to live, where support may be needed, and who should be involved.

What if my family avoids these conversations?

That is common. Agave creates a neutral setting, prepares participants, and guides the conversation toward specific decisions and roles.

Do you provide legal or medical advice?

No. Agave supports reflection, planning, organization, and family communication. Legal and clinical questions are referred to qualified professionals.

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Still deciding?

Tell us what changed. We’ll help you find the right starting point.

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